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3 Ways to Pray Against Negative Thoughts
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3 Ways to Pray Against Negative Thoughts

March 6, 2023
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Posted by Cindi

Are negative thoughts sabotaging your day by dictating to you what to fear and how to feel? Don’t let them have their way with you anymore.

Whether it’s fear, doubt, a critical spirit, anxiety, or just the dreaded case of the what ifs there’s a way to close the gate on all of that negativity entering your mind and dragging you down. Prayer is the ultimate stopper. But not just praying after the fact. Here are three ways to pray to stop negative thoughts in their tracks before they begin to consume you or affect your attitude.

  1. Catch and correct negative thoughts through prayer.

Those who fish often practice “catch and release.” But in prayer, you can incorporate a “catch and correct” method and instead of releasing negative thoughts to keep running wild through your mind, you actually bind them by correcting them with the truth of God’s Word. Second Corinthians 10:5 instructs us to “destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ” (ESV, emphasis added).

In my book, Drama Free, I explain we are instructed to take our thoughts captive to the obedience of Christ because we are in a spiritual war in which the enemy will do his best to run rampant through our thought life, creating doubt, fear, chaos, and confusion. Do you realize that when you feel overwhelmed by health problems, or too may commitments, or relationship difficulties, or emotional distress, it’s possible the enemy of your soul has already formed a stronghold within you and is having a heyday with your thought life? Your only defense is to take those misdirected thoughts captive to the obedience of Christ so they are not running loose in your head and wreaking havoc with your emotional state.

Taking our thoughts captive to the obedience of Christ means capturing or binding them with the truth of God’s Word. If your thoughts tell you that you are alone, capture them and correct them with the truth of Hebrews 13:5 that God will never leave you, nor forsake you. If your thoughts are telling you to leave your spouse and pursue what you want, capture those thoughts and correct them with the truth of 1 Corinthians 13:8: “love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” Here’s an example of how to pray to stop negative thoughts based on 2 Corinthians 10:5:

Lord, I crush every thought that is contrary to Scripture and capture it and correct it with Your truth. Don’t let this idea exist that [your negative thought] is stronger than You and what You can do in my situation. For “with God all things are possible” (Matthew 19:26).

      2. Tell yourself what to think through prayer.

In Psalm 42, the sons of Korah escaped depression and other negative thoughts by telling themselves what to think through prayer. For example, the psalmist asked himself in verse 5: “Why are you cast down, O my soul, and why are you in turmoil within me?” Then he solved his own problem by telling himself what to do: “Hope in God; for I shall again praise him, my salvation and my God.”

Here’s how to pray Psalm 42:5 to stop your own negative spiral downward:

Lord, why am I feeling [insert your emotion]? Why are my thoughts so focused inward on self? Why do I lack [hope /purpose/ compassion / a sound mind] today? Realign my mind to know that You are the God of hope, the Answer to all confusion, the Truth in any situation, the Deliverer from any danger. I put my hope in You, God. Rid me of these thoughts that hold no power over my heart and mind which belong solely to You. In Jesus’ Name, amen.

     3. Pray away the worry with thanksgiving.

Scripture gives us an antidote to worry and negative thoughts. Philippians 4:6-7 is an excellent prescription that really works if we follow it closely: “Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus” (NLT).

Worry is simply giving in to those negative thoughts. According to this passage of Scripture, we are to worry about nothing and instead pray about everything. When we do, along with telling God what we need and thanking Him for what He is already doing, we will experience God’s incomprehensible peace which will prevent us from continuing to worry and be drug down by its effect on us. Here’s how to pray with Philippians 4:6-7 as your guide:

Lord, Your Word commands me to worry about nothing and instead to bring my restless thoughts and anxieties to You, who controls every situation, even my level of fear and panic. Lord, I give You [name your situation or the person you’re having negative thoughts about] and ask that You [name your request]. Thank You for all You’ve done for me already and all You will continue to do to work this situation for eternal good in my life. Keep me focused on You and Your power, so that I may experience Your peace and not be tormented by my worries or fears of what might happen. In the Name of Jesus, through whom all things are possible, amen.

For more on overcoming negative thoughts and emotions and binding them with a better knowledge of the Word of God, see my  books, Women on the Edge, When a Woman Overcomes Life’s Hurts, 10 Secrets to Becoming a Worry Free Mom, and Drama Free.

March 6, 2023
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Cindi
Cindi McMenamin is an award-winning author and national speaker who helps women find strength for the soul. She has nearly 35 years experience ministering to women and inspiring them to let God meet their emotional needs, grow stronger through their alone times, and pursue their dreams with boldness.
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  1. KATHLEEN
    March 7, 2023 @ 9:37 am
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    I have been going through a lot of concern about an upcoming Court date to bring closure to my marriage. I feel the Lord guided me through this situation as my health was adversely affected by the stress from my husband’s controlling ways. I have moved 4 hours away from him and now the end is in sight for closure. I am concerned about his reaction to picking up my possessions that I had to leave behind. He is not a believer and critical of my faith in Jesus as well. This article helped me see the harboring negative and fearful thoughts was only hurting myself as I couldn’t rationalize what would actually happen when I had to confront him for my “things.” Praise God for such a practical way to employ Scripture in prayer to the Lord. I’ve always held on to Philippians 4:6-7 and the prayer with the Scripture stablized my thoughts and keep my mind focused on the Lord Jesus and not my “what ifs” of the upcoming event. I will continue to pray the Scripture to the Lord and seek Him in all I do and say. Thank you.

    • Cindi
      March 8, 2023 @ 8:37 am
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      Thank you, Kathleen, for sharing with me what you’re going through and how Philippians 4:6-7 has helped. Hold onto the truth of Philippians 4:8, as well, which tells us to dwell on “whatever is TRUE…” (and not the possible scenarios our minds come up with). Your God is going before you, walking alongside you and He always has your back. And I’m learning, even when it comes to material possessions, that our loving Heavenly Father really cares about the little things He knows WE care about. He knows what’s special to us, and He has a wonderful “Daddy” way of coming through for us when it comes to “that pretty vase grandma gave me” and “that silver necklace I was given as a child.” You and everything you have is in HIS loving, capable hands.

  2. Connie
    March 7, 2023 @ 9:46 am
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    I love these prayer examples, Cindi! So many feel so stuck and not knowing what to pray. Thank you for ministering to those situations and helping them get “unstuck” while finding their own voice to pray 🙏🏼

    • Cindi
      March 8, 2023 @ 8:31 am
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      You’re welcome, Connie. As always, thanks for taking the time to leave a comment and encourage me. You are much loved.

  3. Sarah
    March 7, 2023 @ 11:13 am
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    Thank you Cindi

    • Cindi
      March 8, 2023 @ 8:31 am
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      You’re welcome, Sarah. 🙂

  4. Felicia Maku Quaye
    March 7, 2023 @ 5:57 pm
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    Thank you for these inspiring 🙏 💜 ❤️ 💖 I know and believe it has changed my negative thoughts.

    • Cindi
      March 8, 2023 @ 8:30 am
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      Thank you, Felicia. I’m encouraged that you found it helpful. Blessings.

  5. Wanda
    March 9, 2023 @ 6:44 am
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    Oh Cindi, What a wonderful blessing you bring to my life! I needed this so much. Thank you for allowing God to use you in such a special way to share His truth!

    • Cindi
      March 9, 2023 @ 7:08 am
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      You’re welcome, Rhonda. Thank you for taking the time to let me know you were encouraged. 😊

  6. April
    July 16, 2024 @ 7:58 am
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    April
    I’m thankful I came across your article. I’ve been having a lot of negative thoughts and energy surrounding me. Reading this has seriously helped to ease my mind. God bless you Cindi.

    • Cindi
      July 16, 2024 @ 10:34 am
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      I’m so glad this has helped you, April. Thank you for reading. Keep your mind on Him and His Word. 🙂

  7. Claudia
    October 28, 2024 @ 10:26 pm
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    Thank you this help me I’m going through mental and emotional had a baby I just feel scared and lonely I want to get close to God but everytime I get close I mess up

    • Cindi
      October 30, 2024 @ 8:14 am
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      Claudia, let me offer you some hope. Even if you feel you “mess up” each time you get close to God, He is unlike any relationship you might have had with a human being. We all disappoint one another and let each other down and mess up. But God is full of grace and unconditional love. James 4:8 says “Draw near to God and He will draw near to you.” And Jeremiah 29:13 says: “You will seek me and find me, when you seek me with all your heart.” God doesn’t run from us or take off when we get “too close” or when we think we’ve messed things up. Instead, He is the God whom David the psalmist says is a hiding place for us. Hide in Him and He won’t disappoint. Psalm 62:8 tells us to pour out our hearts to Him; He is a refuge for us. You are in my prayers today as you draw near to Him once again.

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