Identity is a big deal lately. So are labels we give ourselves.

Years ago, we despised labels. They were synonymous with a reputation or an image we got when a label was slapped on us during childhood by a bully, or during high school as a result of our mistakes or failures. A couple decades ago, labels were something we desperately wanted to lose or avoid, unless they were a status symbol attached to our clothing.

Today, we tend to gravitate toward them. We’ve learned to identify ourselves by our achievements, our position or title at work, our strengths and abilities, or maybe even our failures, and therefore these labels make us feel more significant, accomplished, or even diagnosed.

God knew identity would be a huge deal to us. He knew our feelings of significance and self-worth would be wrapped up in who we believe we are. He also knew our identities would be vulnerable to Satan’s attacks, and the cause of much grief to us personally if we weren’t convinced of our significance. Perhaps that’s why there are so many descriptions in His Word reminding us, affirming us, and re-confirming to us who—and Whose—we really are.

You and I are far more than the labels we have adopted for ourselves or received by others. Here are just three reasons we are so obsessed with labels and identity and how to let them go:

1. We don’t fully understand who we are in Christ.

Scripture tells us when we are trusting in Jesus alone for our salvation we are His child (John 1:12), bought with a price, and therefore belong to God (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). In John 15, Jesus said we are the light of the earth (verses 1, 5), His friend (verse 15), and a branch on His Father’s vine (verse 16). If that weren’t enough of a stellar identity, we are also labeled saints (Ephesians 1:1), and we are redeemed, forgiven, and seen as brand new in God’s eyes, regardless of our past sins, mistakes, and failures (Colossians 1:4). The New Testament writers confirmed all this when they wrote that you are complete in Him (Colossians 2:10), God’s dwelling place (1 Corinthians 3:16), and His work of art (Ephesians 2:10).

Your true identity is not based upon how you feel, or what you do, or what your harsh inner critic is telling you. It isn’t based upon what condition you struggle with or what you may choose to identify with either. Your true identity is recorded in Scripture so that you and I won’t have identity issues or seek out labels other than the ones He has already lovingly placed upon us. Deep wounds from our past can cause us to struggle with understanding and applying these healing labels God has given us, but that doesn’t make them less real. Once you and I properly understand who God is and who He says we are, our questions of identity, significance, purpose, and worth are replaced with a confidence in who we are by His strength, His righteousness, and His love. Our need to be something more than what we are fades in light of the beautiful realization that we are enough because Christ—and what He has done for us—is enough.

2. We haven’t yet discovered Christ is our treasure and reward.

Our search for significance, accomplishment, or uniqueness through labels and identities indicates we don’t yet see Jesus as our ultimate treasure. Psalm 16:11 tells us, “in [His] presence is fullness of joy” (NASB).  That doesn’t mean we must wait for heaven to experience that joy. That assurance of joy and fulfillment is available to us now. When we acknowledge God’s presence, and live in obedient relationship with our heavenly Father, we are loved children, heirs of God while here on earth as well as one day in heaven.

Why would a loved child of God—who has been sealed with God’s Holy Spirit and given an inheritance and the ability to accomplish the impossible through prayer and faith—wander aimlessly, identifying herself with helpless orphans? Those of us who have truly found Christ as our treasure need seek no longer. Jesus said “Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things [that you seek] will be provided to you” (Matthew 6:33 NASB). When we delight ourselves in Him, we find that we have all that we desire (Psalm 37:4), and there is no need to search for more about who we are, what we’re like, what our purpose is, and who really loves us.

3. We long for a sense of purpose, but don’t realize we have it in Christ.

We sometimes believe we can find a sense of purpose and significance in a label, a title, or a new identity. But the new identity Christ gave us at salvation clearly defines our purpose as well.

Scripture tells us “We are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago” (Ephesians 2:10, NLT). Now there’s a label with purpose! It means we are on a mission from God—an assignment for the Almighty, as a work of art or unique expression of who God is so He can showcase Himself to an unbelieving world. What label could be more significant and purposeful than that one?

What About You?

What labels have you placed on yourself or let others place on you? I’ve been told I’m an adult child of an alcoholic. Yet, God’s Word tells me I’m a redeemed child of the King. I’ve also been told I’m an enabler and a co-dependent from a dysfunctional upbringing. Yet Scripture tells me I am the bride of Christ, a new creation in which I have, through the Holy Spirit’s power, more potential to be like my heavenly Father than my own earthly parents!

When we, through faith in Jesus, allow God’s Holy Spirit to transform our lives, God puts shiny new labels on us that tell our redemption story. Rather than chase the labels and identities this world offers, start embracing the ones God has already given you—they are so much better than anything this world has to offer.

For more on your true identity and seeing yourself as God sees you, see my books, Letting God Meet Your Emotional Needs, and Women on the Edge.