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Do you ever feel alone?

May 10, 2016
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Posted by Cindi

I think it’s natural for us to feel alone as women.

You and I have burdens we carry — emotionally and spiritually. And God will often draw us out to a lonely place so we can get to know Him in a deeper way and hand those burdens to Him. I’ve learned through the years that our alone times can be doorways to discovering a deeper intimacy with God. When we feel alone, we can sense His presence in a way that perhaps we couldn’t before.

In my second week of focusing on God’s gifts, I can’t help but think how blessed we are because of God’s presence.

God is bent on relationship. And that’s why He offers us His presence so that we are never truly alone.

I love how the Psalmists wrote about God’s presence,  especially when they felt alone.

One of my favorite songs in Scripture is Psalm 27, written by David who sang:

One thing I ask from the Lord,
    this only do I seek:
that I may dwell in the house of the Lord
    all the days of my life,
to gaze on the beauty of the Lord
    and to seek him in his temple (verse 4).

David was saying the one thing he wanted the most was God’s presence.

Do you realize that David wrote this Psalm at a time when the presence of God was not accessible to anyone as it is to us today through the power of the Holy Spirit?

David longed to “dwell in God’s presence” which could only happen if he lived in the temple, because that’s where God’s presence dwelt. But David could not live in the temple because he was not a priest. And even if he were, the presence of God dwelt in the Holy of Holies, that inner chamber where only the High Priest could enter once a year, and after a lengthy ritualistic cleansing process so that he wouldn’t be struck dead by the holiness of God.

Under the Old Covenant, the Holy Spirit only visited certain people at a certain time for a certain purpose. God’s spirit came upon the prophets of the Old Testament and they were able to demonstrate the power of God and perform miracles. God’s anointing spirit came upon Samson and he experienced tremendous strength. The Holy Spirit came upon David and he was able to kill a bear and a lion with his hands. The Holy Spirit came upon Elijah and he was able to call down rain and  fire from heaven. But other than those temporary moments of the Holy Spirit’s presence, the people under the Old Covenant were pretty much separated from God by their sin.

But when Christ died on the cross as the ultimate sacrifice for our sins, He removed that separation and there was instant access between God and those who come to Him by faith on the merit of what Jesus did for them.

Today we have a Savior who has made it possible for us to be in the presence of God – always. We have the indwelling Holy Spirit, when we come to God through faith in Jesus, and that means God’s presence is always with us.

We can experience today what David only longed for.

Can you, like David, say “there is one thing I need…”?

Oh, that you and I would realize there really IS only ONE thing we need…and it’s to be in God’s presence. And we can be.

May 10, 2016
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Cindi
Cindi McMenamin is an award-winning author and national speaker who helps women find strength for the soul. She has nearly 35 years experience ministering to women and inspiring them to let God meet their emotional needs, grow stronger through their alone times, and pursue their dreams with boldness.
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  1. Williams Aladi Charity
    May 17, 2016 @ 4:08 pm
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    Great message. Come at a time I really needed it. I am blessed this afternoon. My faith is strengthened again because i can enjoy the presence of God. Thank you.

  2. Diana
    May 17, 2016 @ 4:17 pm
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    Thank you Cindi..as always this was written for me…I have met you at retreats Cornerstone and have always enjoyed you…Hope to see you soon

    • Cindi
      May 17, 2016 @ 8:19 pm
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      Thank you, Diana, for your encouraging message. I appreciate it. Have a blessed week.

  3. Delia Plescia
    May 18, 2016 @ 1:59 pm
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    Perfect timing today for this message.
    I so needed to hear this…
    thank you so much.

    • Cindi
      May 18, 2016 @ 5:15 pm
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      You’re welcome, Delia. Thank you for your encouraging comments. Those, too, are always perfectly timed in my life. 🙂

  4. Maria Lourdes Bouffard Ruperto
    June 2, 2016 @ 12:24 am
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    Hi cindi i read one of your book God’s whispers to a Woman’s Heart. I was attached and it helps me a lot especially when I thought that God leave me all alone I never expected that throught this book I will hear HIM and open my eyes that HE is beside me always.
    Thank you sooo much! I would like to ask more encouring words from you.

    • Cindi
      June 2, 2016 @ 3:52 am
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      Hi Maria. Thank you so much for taking the time to leave a comment. I’m so glad you’ve been encouraged by my book, God’s Whispers to a Woman’s Heart. It is my hope that you will continue to spend time with Him daily, listening for His whispers, sensing His presence, and trusting Him, even in the silence.

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    August 24, 2016 @ 7:35 am
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    Just needed to say I’m glad I came on the site!.

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