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Lose Yourself QuoteIt is quite popular these days to be on a search to find yourself. To pull away from friends, family and the rest of the world in pursuit of who you REALLY are.

I’ve talked with a few women lately who are in the throes of trying to find themselves. They are, in a sense,  looking for their purpose, searching for their identity, determined to no longer be what the world expects them to be.

This search sounds virtuous on the exterior. “Good for you,” we might say in response, trying to be a loving, supportive friend. But on the interior it is a futile quest.

We can find neither our purpose, nor our significance apart from our Creator and His purpose for us. We have been created to love God and enjoy Him forever.

I remember when I was trying to find myself  during a few short months of my college years  by living outside the lines, apart from the rules, wandering, rebelling.  It didn’t take me long to realize that without Christ in my life, I was SO lost…and apart from Him I am nothing (John 15:5).

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Are you ready for 4  more things you never have to worry about?

I asked you last week to let me know what keeps you awake at  night and, based on your responses (and what I know of God’s trustworthy Word) here is another list of 4 things God can control a lot better than you and I can:

1. You never need to worry about being ignorant or relying on your own thinking. God’s wisdom is there for the askingJames 1:5-6 says:

If you need wisdom, ask our generous God, and he will give it to you. He will not rebuke you for asking. But when you ask him, be sure that your faith is in God alone. Do not waver, for a person with divided loyalty is as unsettled as a wave of the sea that is blown and tossed by the wind (NLT).

So,  ask God for wisdom and ask for it by faith in Him alone. And as you apply Proverbs 3:5-6, He will straighten the way for you:

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weddingphotoHugh&CindiThis week my husband and I will celebrate 26 years of marriage. More than two decades ago, we told each other “I do” in front of family and friends. And after all these years, Hugh is still putting up with me. 🙂

I could be all gushy and say “I can’t imagine my life without him,” but honestly speaking, sometimes I have imagined that. And those are the times I am reminded that marriage isn’t — and never has been — about me. It’s about the One who called me to live, work, and serve alongside this man to accomplish God’s will for His glory.

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Admit it, there are parts of the Bible that are difficult to digest. Certain girlreadingbiblewords sting and can cause us to question our faith. I came across some of them as I was writing my book, When God Sees Your Tears.

In the Old Testament story of Hannah, I found staring at me, like a dagger, seven words about why Hannah could not conceive a child: because the Lord had closed her womb. Those seven words explain, but don’t really explain, Hannah’s misery. And within those seven disturbing words are four words that explain — or don’t really explain — the troubles we experience today, too: because the Lord had.

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When-God-Sees-Your-Tears-ReleaseCongratulations to Christy Spurlock and Michelle (pastoor@mts.net) for winning a free copy of my newest book, When God Sees Your Tears.

Thank you to each of you for expressing your interest in the book.  I will be conducting a few more giveaways in the next couple of months and your entries WILL BE ADDED to that drawing as a thank you for your support of my ministry.

Have a blessed day.

Where is God in the story of your life? When God Sees Your Tears

  • collecting your tears in a bottle (Psalm 56:8).
  • recording every detail in His book.
  • weaving His plan and purpose into your circumstances.
  • building a legacy out of what you might feel is wasted time.

It’s difficult to imagine how God can have a purpose or happy ending to our life’s story when we’re right in the middle of discontent — longing for something more or missing something we once had. But God sees our story from beginning to end and He knows exactly what He’s preparing us for.

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My friend, Dineen Miller, has great advice for  spiritually mismatched women and any others who need help loving their husbands.As my guest blogger this week, relate to her heart as she shares honestly how “Loving God Helps Me Love My Husband”:

I will tell you, in all honesty, that I cannot love my husband in my own strength. It’s not possible. I tried to for many years and would do Winning Him Without Words-LRsmallfine for a while, but inevitably I would run out of steam. Resentment would seep back in and these feelings and thoughts more often had to do with how little I perceived to be getting back in the relationship. That was my own selfishness creeping in. To truly love my husband requires unconditional love that’s centered in Christ, not me.

Especially since he doesn’t share my faith. My husband and I are spiritually mismatched. Marriage in itself is fraught with challenges, but add a spiritual disconnect and you have an additional conflict, which bleeds into everything else.

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Wouldn’t it be nice if life consisted only of pleasant surprises, not the disappointing ones?

The other day I received news that was gravely disappointing. I wasn’t woman-prayingprepared for it in the least. I was shocked, actually.

God had been on a roll with blessings in my life. I guess I’d gotten a little comfortable. And this disappointing news couldn’t have come at a worse time — a week before Christmas, just days after celebrating my daughter’s college graduation, and just a week prior to my husband’s transition into a new season of life that carried with it a lot of financial uncertainty.

My family was daily looking for the little assurances that God had our back and we were constantly praising Him for all the times He came through. And now, it looked like the door to my golden opportunity and financial stability had slammed shut. My first reaction, spoken aloud, was “God, this is so out of character for You.”

And then I suddenly realized something.

God doesn’t do anything out of character.

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Are you ready to hear God’s whispers on your heart? Chances are He is already whispering. You and I just need to get quiet enough to listen.

You, my readers, have asked for it and it’s finally here: A new devotional with daily inspirational readings to help you recognize God’s whispers, reflect on His character, and respond to His heart.

And here are 5 Reasons to order my new devotional: God's Whispers to a Woman's Heart

  • One devotional per page, each based on Scripture, makes it an easy-to-read yet meaningful daily devotional.
  • This soft-padded format with a ribbon to mark your page makes it a wonderful keepsake and gift book.
  • It’s the perfect “stocking stuffer” or gift for your mother, daughters, sisters and friends.
  •  It’s a practical gift for the women on your leadership team or in your small-group study.
  •  Something to look forward to in the new year because you — and those you love — have always wanted to discern God’s loving voice.

Let these devotions fill your days with confidence, hope, and peace that only God can give. Read a sample devotional from the book.

Order your copy for only $9.99 plus shipping. To order 5 or more and receive free shipping, email Cindi@StrengthForTheSoul.com.

(Order by Dec. 12 to ensure Christmas delivery.)

 

These are hard times. thankful

I’m reminded of it every time I have to put gas in my car, or the grocery bill was more than I expected, or the promised check in the mail didn’t come.

Yet on any given day of the week, I hear of families who are experiencing more difficult times than I am. I still have a roof over my head, a car that runs (actually, our family has three of them!), and I’ve never known the pangs of starvation. In addition, Scripture says I have some spiritual blessings that will blow my mind if I really think about them.

I got to thinking about those “spiritual blessings” today and it changed my perspective on these ‘hard times’ I’m living in:

  1. I have a home. Not only do I have shelter and a place to lay my head at night, but I have an eternal home waiting for me someday. Jesus called it a mansion…apparently a place big enough to blow away any type of dwelling I could afford or acquire here on earth (John 14:20, NKJV).
  2. I have a family. Not only do I have a husband and daughter, and parents and siblings, all of whom are still living, but I have a spiritual family as well. The church (both local and corporate) is made up of believers that, at times, can be closer than family. What a blessing that, even if you don’t feel you have family around, if you are connected with other believers, you have family.
  3. I  have a husband. In a day and age when divorce claims 1 in 2 marriages, and adultery, abandonment and abuse run rampant, I have much to be grateful for that my husband is  still honoring his commitment to be faithful to me in every way. Maybe you are not in a position to say the same. Yet you can. Scripture tells us in Isaiah 54:5: “For your husband is your Maker, the Lord God of hosts.” When you are trusting in His Son, Jesus, for your eternal life, He has committed Himself to never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). He husbands you in a way that no earthly man ever could.read more
“It’s never too early — or too late — to draw your daughter’s heart closer to yours!” 

When A Mom Inspires Her DaughterMy newest book, When a Mom Inspires Her Daughter, is now available (a few weeks early!) and I wanted YOU, my faithful blog readers, to know about it first.

Order a signed copy now at $2 off the cover price and you’ll receive a FREE copy of my purse-sized devotional,  When Women Walk Alone: A 31-Day Devotional Companion  — perfect as a gift or daily encouragement for any woman, single  or married.

(Just enter “Blog offer” in the “instructions to seller” field in the shopping cart and I will add the mini devotional book to your order free of charge.)

When a Mom Inspires Her Daughter:

$10.99 plus shipping.  

To order 5 or more copies at just $9.99 each, email Cindi@StrengthForTheSoul.com and mention “blog offer” and I will email you a customized invoice with the discounted price.  (Bulk orders also include free copies of the devotional book – 1 per book  — while supplies last.)

This book will help you:

  • Explore ways to give your daughter the gift of your time
  • Learn how to support her interests and encourage her dreams
  • Become her cheerleader and closest confidante
  • Draw her heart closer to yours

“This book is timely and an answer to every mother’s prayers for help with preparing her daughter for life.”    — Elizabeth George, Author of A Woman After God’s Own Heart & A Mom After God’s Own Heart

Have a question about raising a daughter, preparing her for life or drawing her heart closer to yours? Ask me and I”ll answer in an upcoming blog.

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